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Post separation abuse

So often, the fear of post separation abuse keeps a victim trapped in the abusive relationship. So often it’s a case of ‘better the devil you know’. Plus, when you have children with your abuser, staying with them means you think you can better protect your children. I know that it took me such a…

Summer.

My second summer without him.  I am excited.  I am free.  Life is slowly falling into a new normal.  One where shards of my life before him are returning along with newness.  Life is forever split; before him and after him. I will never be the person I was before him.  Perhaps that is a…

Smear campaigns

An abuser loves a good smear campaign. And they have to start it long before you truly realise how abusive they are, long before you leave them. Whilst you sleep next to them they are smearing your name. Whilst you are trying so hard, so damn hard to keep them happy, they are smearing your…

A little update….

Hello! It’s been a while! When I started this blog a couple years ago, I thought that that moment in time was the beginning of the rest of my life. Little did I know that that was just a brief moment and that I would go on to remain stuck in the cycle of abuse…


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